“Out of 800k it’s only 80k that you give to me monthly” Lady requested 250k monthly payment from boyfriend after she found out that he earns 800k every month
A dispute between a young Nigerian man and his girlfriend over monthly allowances has sparked widespread debate online. The girlfriend requested a higher monthly allowance after discovering he earns N800,000 monthly. She used to receive N80,000 but demanded an increase to N250,000, expressing her frustration and dissatisfaction with the current amount. In the chat shared by @freshyonly_ on X, she said, “Kunle, you get N800k monthly. Out of N800k, it’s only N80k that you give me monthly, Kunle. Is that fair? I want an increment. That N80k does not do anything in my life. Try and increase it for me. At least N250k maybe. I am not negotiating. It’s 250k no reduction. I don’t blame you. You disgust me.”
Kunle, in response, suggested she seek financial support from her family instead. He replied, “Tell your daddy to give you N250k monthly or any of your brothers. Or wait, they can’t. You are so inconsiderate, and your sense of entitlement is crazy. Tell me what you have done in my life. Your overblown sense of entitlement and lack of intelligence is annoying.”
The leaked conversation quickly garnered attention and elicited numerous reactions from Nigerians on X. Akosuah commented, “Why does she feel entitled to his money? And where from the you’ve been lying to me? She should be angry with herself for not making enough to cater for her needs rather than depending and feeling entitled to her boyfriend’s money.” Unlimited Eniola questioned, “Is she working for him apart from being his girlfriend?? N80k monthly is not enough??” Cyning added, “I like the guy. I can’t even last a week with that kinda babe. See as she dey talk sef.” Deji Sama remarked, “Women be doing like they smart but na delulu dem be.” Idan asked, “Bro why are you even giving her a monthly allowance in the first place? Is she your wife?”
The situation raises broader questions about financial expectations and responsibilities in relationships, highlighting differing perspectives on entitlement and support. The debate reflects a common struggle where financial dynamics can impact the balance of power and satisfaction between partners. The public’s strong reactions reveal deep-seated views on gender roles, independence, and the boundaries of financial assistance within romantic relationships.
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