If we can recall, Korra Obidi, a Nigerian dancer, and her husband, Justin Dean, a chiropractor, announced their divorce in March 2022. The reasons for their divorce have been a topic of public interest and speculation. Both parties have shared their perspectives, attributing the separation to a variety of issues.
Justin Dean cited infidelity, narcissism, and a toxic relationship as reasons for the breakup. He mentioned these issues publicly, expressing his dissatisfaction and frustration with their marriage.
Korra Obidi, on the other hand, acknowledged their differences and the challenges they faced but denied the allegations of infidelity. She pointed to Dean’s alleged controlling behavior and lack of support during her postpartum period as significant factors that contributed to their separation.
Nancy, Korra Obidi’s sister, announced on Instagram that Korra has obtained a restraining order against her husband, whom she referred to as a ‘stalker’.
She said:
Dear IG fam. How are you doing?
I’ve never brought this issue here but I’m too excited and I want to share this.
Today, my sister @korraobidi secured a permanent restraining order against her stalker from Facebook.
This stalker defamed, harassed and threatened my sister for over 2 years on Facebook.
It doesn’t end there, this stalker befriended my sister’s ex husband (the moment you make a video bullying his ex, he contacts you and becomes your friend immediately. He invited her to his house and she travelled all the way to LA. While she was there, she took videos and pictures of my sister’s children unclad right in their father’s bathroom.
My sister’s ex husband gave this stalker permission to share the videos and pictures she took with a group of racist in exchange for monetary gains. The stalker was part of a group of racist women who were constantly sabotaging any paid job, performance, influencing gig and concert my sister got. They were brought together by my sister’s ex to destr*y what was left of her.
They gifted him money in exchange for videos and photos of his children. He once received $2,000 for videos of his girls, after coming to Facebook to declare that he didn’t want his children on social media. The stalker recorded my sister’s daughter na*ked, sitting on a potty and shared this video with the same WhatsApp group with permission from their father.
The videos/ pictures leaked (one of the group members fell out with the stalker and decided to expose all she had been doing). The entire Facebook saw these photos/ videos. They were shared
from inbox to inbox.
My sister was emailed these videos in January while she was at my house in Nigeria.
She asked the father of her children what was going on and he promised to ‘sort it out’. In the meantime, she reported to the
police, CPS and all relevant authorities all the way from Nigeria.
As soon as she returned to the US, she reported and was told to file a civil suit and get a restraining order against the stalker first.
In the meantime, her ex, on hearing that she had reported made several videos denying the incident. He lied on his children, saying the stalker never recorded them na*ked.
He lied that the FBl contacted him, saw the videos and didn’t see anything wrong with it.
He claimed the stalker was his family member, then, his mother’s friend, then, his paid nanny. The stalker made a video saying he gave her express permission to share videos of his children.
The stalker is an ex convict and has a criminal history, the size of a textbook. He booked a ticket for this stranger he met on Facebook who happened to be a criminal. She came into his home on two different occasions.
He left this stalker with his children, just so he could go out drinking. Up until 6 weeks ago, he was still protecting and covering up for the stalker. The stalker is not allowed near her own grandson. Her own son said she had a laptop full of child p*orn.
Meanwhile, they live in the state of California where 50/50 rules apply for parental custody.
My sister’s ex only has the children 2 weeks a month. He only has 50% legal and physical custody while my sister has 50%.
This man went to META (Facebook) to obtain image rights protection for their children using their birth certificates. Facebook granted him the right to delete any photos or videos of their children from the app. He has been using this rights protection to remove EVERY SINGLE PICTURE AND VIDEO of my nieces from the internet on only their mother’s side of the family in an attempt to completely alienate them.
Some weeks ago, he removed several family photos from my Facebook as far back as 2019 where my niece appeared. You may be wondering why I’m writing all these. A few weeks back, my sister was dragged for the one millionth time by her ex on instablog. This time, he called her a scammer for starting a go fund me for legal fees.
So far.. My sister has spent almost $200,000 fighting for her right to be in her children’s life. He has concocted all sort of lies to take her children from her. He filed 4 good expartes to have her children removed. They ALL BACKFIRED! If my sister didn’t have good lawyers, she would have been deported by now and he would have full custody. They share 50/50 custody but he refused to pay school fees for their daughter’s pre-school, he refused to sign their passports for them to visit Nigeria, he refused to pay medical bills for the two occasions the children were sick. To top it all up, he has continuously sabotaged my sister’s livelihood by sticking her Facebook monetized page whenever he catches a glimpse of their children posted on her
page.
Today was the first of several hearings. She has taken him to court to get her right to motherhood back. We’re happy it’s off to a great start. The stalker can no longer talk about her/ bully her online or come 100 yards near her or her children. Soon, he’ll have to explain how something he said was a lie became true in court to the point that a judge granted a PERMANENT restraining order. He will have to explain how this stalker got into his home to abuse his children and how he covered up for her till she was exposed.
This man has successfully used ‘morally correct’ women to bully, harass and defame his ex for almost 3 years now. The excuse they have for calling her names and emailing any potential gig she has is ‘HER DRESSING’.
Guess what? These women openly doing this are all BLACK WOMEN! You all see why I’m happy about this P.R.O right?
For the first time… she’s fighting back the attack on her children and livelihood from that app called Facebook.I pray that God will continue to give us reasons to celebrate.
I’m grateful to God for my sister. She escaped, not a lot of people are that lucky. Now she’ll fight for her TOTAL FREEDOM.
I love you guys, thank you!
The messages are a lot but I really do appreciate your prayers for my sister. If you see her on instablog or gossipmill again, it’s because someone is losing in court.
For those asking, the stalker is a white woman whose supporters bragged that no judge in America will rule in favour of a black
immigrant.
I used to watch movies about divorce and say things like ‘why didn’t they just hold a family
meeting’…..
Now I know. My family has seen the most these past 2-3 years.
I’m just grateful that people do not have to suffer in silence anymore.
Thanks once again.
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