A viral video from a wedding ceremony has sparked intense debate online after the bride’s father shared some unexpected advice with the groom.
In the clip, the father can be seen handing his daughter over to the groom, but not before dropping some wisdom that has left many people talking.
He told the groom that his wife is not obligated to cook for him, advising him not to believe in the cultural notion that men are the head of the family and should come home from work expecting food.
The father questioned who told men that their wives must cook for them, emphasizing that no one is forced to cook just to make their husbands happy or earn a place in paradise.
He even shared a personal anecdote, revealing that there were times when he came home from work and his wife told him there was no food, yet he accepted it without issue.
The father’s speech has ignited a heated discussion online, with many debating whether his advice was wise or not.
While some praised the father for protecting his daughter’s rights and promoting equality in marriage, others felt that his statement sounded more like a warning than a blessing.
See reactions and video below
@Yoshiki_OfficialE33: “Make she no cook. Na ur house she go stay.”
@.EMPRESSSS.: “Broke people in the comment section really be mad about the father’s statement . The man has money, he doesn’t want anyone to treat his daughter like a slave, he would collect her back , you think it’s everyone’s parents that’s wants thier child to be maltreated in the name of marriage.”
@Musa_Malami: “To those going against his sayings, Can you give us a verse or ayat stating that its a part of our religion that your wife must cook for you?”
@prince_of_kano: “Wlhi she must cook, unless she’s sick or pregnant then she can rest, maybe I would be a bit romantic at the moment and cook for her, no cook no love!!!”
@Ali_shuwa: “If she chooses not to cook for you then you can get a second wife who’s willing to cook, simple, if she wants to stay she can if she wants to leave she can.”
@깊은_사랑: “if a wife does not Cook its useless to marry sef cuz why will u marry her if she does not Cook or something like dat better u stay single becuz if u provide she must cook.”
@Who_said: “Who said the man must provide? Nowhere. Its his own volition because he want to make you happy.”
