You are learning from my experiences, as a young girl at 19,20,21 don’t rush into marriage — Lady advise young girls as she gives details
A social media influencers @mamaariella on her TikTok handle page shares her advice to young girls, particularly those aged 18, 19, 20, and 21, not to rush into marriage, emphasizing the importance of self-discovery, career development, and life experiences.
She highlight the things that happens to you when you get married at this tender age
At this age you want to please your husband, you don’t have any say in the marriage you will be even scared of the man you are married to, expecially when you married an older man.
When a young girl of this age gets married she doesn’t understand the woman she will become before she gets to 30. Probably she will divorced.
She highlights that, what she wanted to do when she was 20, is not what she is doing today because of marriage. I was lucky I married an understandable man, I would have been divorced by now.
these years are crucial for understanding oneself, building a stable career, and enjoying life’s various aspects without the pressures of marital responsibilities. Emotional maturity and stability are key to a healthy marriage, and taking time to grow in these areas can lead to more informed decisions and fewer regrets. Her message encourages young girls to prioritize their personal growth and happiness before making such a significant commitment.
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